Saturday, April 17, 2010

Email Recent Ex Boyfriend?

My boyfriend just broke up with me. Its been 2 weeks. We have been going out for 1.5 years. It was a rocky relationship with lots of ups and downs. We both agreed to work on it but all of a sudden he just let it all go. I'm so brokenhearted I dont know what to do with myself. I haven't contacted him and he hasnt contacted me. I wrote out a long email about how I felt. I didnt ask him to come back but I just told him how he made me feel over the years. I was honest in the email. I want to send it to him but I know its too soon to right now. I dont know how he'll react, but it bothers me that he hasnt contacted me. I'm hoping if i give him time, he'll miss me. Should I let things cool off? Will he miss me enough to talk to me again? I want to work things out. When should I send the email? Please help.

Email Recent Ex Boyfriend?
PLZ DO NOT SEND HIM THAT EMAIL...i was in ur position...and it hurt like a *****...i tried everything EVERYTHING...%26amp; he just didn't contact me...if he hasn't contact u in 2 weeks he probably is trying to move on....u don't understand home much i regreat writting letters telling him how i felt..if he doesn't want you its ok move on...later on when i thought i wouln't find anybody else...came my current boyfrien my true love he came un expected and now we have been t2 gether for 1.3 years....believe me don't send him the email...let him approch you if he really want you back
Reply:keep the email save and it in a month go back and look at it if you still think you should send it then do. in the mean time go hang out with friends have fun live you life don't just sit around and think about the email.
Reply:This is the same exact situation I am going through and right now I am on Day 4 after a month of calling, emailing, texting, crying and begging. What I have finally realized is that while it will hurt, if there's any hope of saving anything you have to take a step back, you have to pull back, you have to let go... not forever, but for right now. Trust me, it's hard... I'm going through this right now and I'm only on Day 4. Hold on to the email, give it at least a month, then if you still feel the same way, wait until you are conversing with him and wait until he brings up the relationship. I hope this helps.
Reply:I'm going to say no, don't email it. How can he ever miss you if you never go away? The best thing you can do, if you ever cared about him, is to not contact him in any form. He has probably moved on, which is why he dumped you so coldly. Do you really want to flatter a could-be cheater with an email like that? Leave him alone. Would you email your boss if he fired you? I think not.


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